Life Issues Counseling – Introduction
Life Issues Counseling at Unbroken Covenant Cathedral exists to strengthen lives, heal hearts, and restore God’s design through the power of Jesus Christ. We recognize that life’s challenges—especially within marriage—can test faith, patience, and commitment. Yet God remains faithful to His covenant promises.
Our counseling ministry is Christ-centered, Bible-based, and guided by the Holy Spirit. Through prayer, Scripture, and compassionate counsel, we help individuals and couples align their lives with God’s truth, rediscover hope, and walk in renewed purpose. No marriage is beyond God’s ability to heal when surrendered to Him.
Life Issue: Marriage
Marriage Is a Covenant, Not a Contract
Marriage was created by God as a sacred covenant designed to reflect Christ’s love for the Church. While marriage can bring joy and companionship, it can also face seasons of conflict, misunderstanding, emotional distance, or hardship. These challenges do not mean failure—they reveal an opportunity for growth, healing, and deeper unity through Christ.
When Jesus is at the center, marriage becomes a place of grace, forgiveness, and transformation.
“Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
— Mark 10:9
Biblical Understanding of Marriage
Marriage is instituted and ordained by God
Husbands and wives are called to reflect Christ-like love
Unity requires humility, sacrifice, and forgiveness
Conflict is inevitable, but division is not required
God desires restoration, not separation
Christ-Centered Solutions for Marriage
1. Place Christ at the Center
Make Jesus the foundation of the relationship
Pray together consistently
Submit personal desires to God’s will
Seek God’s guidance before making decisions
“A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” (Ecclesiastes 4:12)
2. Practice Christlike Love
Love sacrificially, not selfishly
Choose patience and kindness daily
Speak words that build, not tear down
Put your spouse’s needs above your own
“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church.” (Ephesians 5:25)
3. Walk in Humility and Forgiveness
Admit faults and take responsibility
Forgive quickly and fully
Release bitterness and resentment
Extend grace as Christ extends grace to you
“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another.” (Ephesians 4:32)
4. Communicate With Truth and Grace
Listen before responding
Speak with honesty and respect
Avoid harsh words or silent withdrawal
Address issues prayerfully and lovingly
“Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.” (James 1:19)
5. Protect Unity and Intimacy
Guard the marriage from outside distractions
Establish healthy boundaries
Prioritize emotional and physical connection
Remain faithful in heart, mind, and action
“Above all, love each other deeply.” (1 Peter 4:8)
6. Grow Together Spiritually
Study Scripture together
Worship and serve together
Encourage one another’s faith
Grow in spiritual maturity as a team
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” (Proverbs 27:17)
7. Seek Help Early and Wisely
Do not wait until conflict becomes crisis
Seek godly counsel and pastoral support
Invite accountability and prayer into your marriage
Trust God to work through wise guidance
“Plans succeed with counsel.” (Proverbs 20:18)
A Word of Hope
Marriage may face challenges, but God’s covenant remains strong. With Christ at the center, broken communication can be restored, wounded hearts can be healed, and love can be renewed. What feels strained today can become strengthened tomorrow through God’s grace.
At Unbroken Covenant Cathedral, Life Issues Counseling is committed to helping marriages grow, heal, and thrive according to God’s design. Your marriage matters to God, and restoration is always possible through Christ.
“He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion.”
— Philippians 1:6