Life Issues Counseling – Introduction
Life Issues Counseling at Unbroken Covenant Cathedral is a ministry devoted to healing hearts and transforming lives through the power of Jesus Christ and the truth of God’s Word. In a culture filled with confusion about relationships, identity, and intimacy, we believe God’s design brings freedom, wholeness, and lasting fulfillment.
Our counseling approach is Christ-centered, Bible-based, and Spirit-led. Through prayer, Scripture, and compassionate guidance, individuals are encouraged to overcome destructive patterns, grow in spiritual maturity, and walk in God’s purpose. Every life issue finds clarity and healing in Christ.
Life Issue: Love & Lust
Understanding God’s Design for Love and Purity
God created love to be holy, selfless, and covenantal. Love reflects God’s nature—it seeks commitment, honor, and sacrifice. Lust, however, distorts love by focusing on self-gratification rather than God’s purpose. Lust promises pleasure but often leads to guilt, broken relationships, and spiritual distance.
Jesus calls us to a higher standard—not to condemn us, but to free us. Through Christ, hearts can be healed, desires can be transformed, and relationships can be restored to God’s design.
“Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.”
— Matthew 5:8
Biblical Understanding of Love & Lust
Love is patient, kind, and selfless (1 Corinthians 13)
Lust focuses on selfish desire and instant gratification
God’s design for intimacy protects the heart and soul
Purity begins in the heart, not just behavior
Transformation comes through Christ, not willpower alone
Christ-Centered Solutions for Love & Lust
1. Renew Your Understanding of Godly Love
Study biblical love as defined in Scripture
Recognize that love seeks commitment and honor
Allow God to reshape your view of intimacy
Value relationships the way God values people
“Let all that you do be done with love.” (1 Corinthians 16:14)
2. Guard Your Heart, Mind, and Eyes
Be intentional about what you watch, read, and listen to
Avoid environments that fuel temptation
Set personal boundaries that protect purity
Remember that what enters the mind shapes the heart
“Above all else, guard your heart.” (Proverbs 4:23)
3. Surrender Desires to Christ
Bring every desire honestly before God
Ask the Holy Spirit to transform unhealthy cravings
Submit thoughts and urges to Christ’s authority
Trust God to align desires with His will
“Create in me a clean heart, O God.” (Psalm 51:10)
4. Walk in Accountability and Community
Do not fight temptation alone
Seek accountability with mature believers
Invite prayer and encouragement into your journey
Be honest and transparent in safe, godly relationships
“Two are better than one.” (Ecclesiastes 4:9)
5. Replace Lust With Purpose and Discipline
Fill your time with prayer, service, and spiritual growth
Redirect energy toward God-honoring pursuits
Develop healthy routines and self-control
Allow discipline to strengthen character
“Flee youthful lusts and pursue righteousness.” (2 Timothy 2:22)
6. Embrace God’s Grace and Healing
Release shame and condemnation
Receive forgiveness through Christ
Allow God to heal past wounds and brokenness
Walk confidently in God’s mercy and love
“There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” (Romans 8:1)
7. Commit to Purity as an Act of Worship
View purity as honoring God, not restriction
Choose obedience out of love for Christ
Let your life reflect God’s holiness
Trust that God’s way leads to lasting joy
“Present your bodies as a living sacrifice.” (Romans 12:1)
A Word of Hope
God does not shame those who struggle with love and lust—He invites them into transformation. No matter your past, Christ offers forgiveness, renewal, and a new beginning. Through His grace, hearts are restored, minds are renewed, and relationships are redeemed.
At Unbroken Covenant Cathedral, Life Issues Counseling exists to guide individuals toward freedom, purity, and God-honoring relationships. In Christ, victory is possible, healing is available, and love can be restored to its rightful place.
“Whom the Son sets free is free indeed.”
— John 8:36