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Life Issues: Grief

Life Issues Counseling – Introduction

Life Issues Counseling at Unbroken Covenant Cathedral is a sacred space where faith meets real life. We understand that believers face seasons of pain, loss, confusion, and emotional struggle. Life does not always unfold as expected—but God remains faithful through every season.

Our counseling ministry is Christ-centered, Bible-based, and guided by the Holy Spirit. We believe that Jesus Christ is the ultimate healer of the heart, restorer of hope, and comforter of the soul. Through prayer, Scripture, and loving guidance, we walk alongside individuals and families as they navigate life’s challenges and discover God’s purpose, peace, and restoration.

No issue is too heavy, no wound too deep, and no season too dark for the light of Christ.

Life Issue: Grief

When Loss Hurts, God Draws Near

Grief is the deep sorrow experienced after loss. It may come from the death of a loved one, miscarriage, divorce, broken relationships, loss of health, or unfulfilled expectations. Grief can feel overwhelming, isolating, and confusing—but Scripture assures us that God is close to the grieving heart.

Jesus Himself experienced grief. He wept at the tomb of Lazarus, showing us that sorrow is not a lack of faith—it is part of being human. In Christ, grief is not ignored or rushed; it is met with compassion, presence, and hope.

“The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
— Psalm 34:18

Biblical Understanding of Grief

  • Grief is not weakness; it is a natural response to loss

  • God invites us to bring our pain to Him honestly

  • Mourning is acknowledged and honored in Scripture

  • God promises comfort, not condemnation, in seasons of sorrow

  • Grief may be a process, but it does not have the final word

Christ-Centered Solutions for Grief

1. Bring Your Pain to God

  • Pray honestly, even when words are hard to find

  • Cry out to God without fear of judgment

  • Release the need to appear “strong” all the time

  • Trust that God hears every tear

“Pour out your heart before Him; God is a refuge for us.” (Psalm 62:8)

2. Allow Yourself to Mourn

  • Give yourself permission to grieve at your own pace

  • Understand that grief has seasons and stages

  • Avoid suppressing emotions that need healing

  • Remember that mourning is biblical and blessed

“Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.” (Matthew 5:4)

3. Lean on the Comfort of Christ

  • Remember that Jesus understands sorrow personally

  • Meditate on God’s promises of peace and comfort

  • Invite the Holy Spirit—the Comforter—into daily moments

  • Trust Christ’s presence even when feelings fluctuate

“Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28)

4. Stay Connected to Godly Support

  • Do not grieve alone—God designed us for community

  • Allow trusted believers to walk with you

  • Receive prayer, encouragement, and compassion

  • Seek pastoral or counseling support when needed

“Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” (Galatians 6:2)

5. Guard Your Heart and Mind

  • Reject lies of hopelessness or abandonment

  • Replace despairing thoughts with God’s truth

  • Stay rooted in Scripture, even in short daily moments

  • Speak life and faith over your healing process

“You will keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on You.” (Isaiah 26:3)

6. Hold Onto Eternal Hope

  • Remember that death and loss are not the end in Christ

  • Trust God’s promise of eternal life and reunion

  • Believe that joy can return, even after deep sorrow

  • Allow hope to grow alongside healing

“We do not grieve as those who have no hope.” (1 Thessalonians 4:13)

A Word of Hope

Grief may feel heavy, but it is not permanent. God walks with you through the valley and does not abandon you in sorrow. Healing does not mean forgetting—it means learning to live again with God’s comfort, strength, and peace.

At Unbroken Covenant Cathedral, Life Issues Counseling is here to remind you that your pain matters, your tears are seen, and your future is still filled with hope. The same Christ who conquered death offers comfort now—and eternal joy ahead.

“He will wipe away every tear from their eyes.”
— Revelation 21:4